Do Married Women Feel Threaten by Single Ladies?

Its very funny that this subject came up the other night with some of my girlfriends.  See we have a friend of ours that just got married about 21/2 years ago, and we don't really see her that often and she doesn't always invite us to her little parties.  This raised a very great debate over a wonderful glass of Bordeaux at the Fountain which is located in the Four Seasons!! Do Married women feel threatened by us single girls?  One of my girlfriends is under the impression that they don't feel threaten by us, they feel as if we are going to hit on their husbands or sleep with them.. That brought a slight laugh around the table because, all of us stated they married this person not us and we still haven't figured out other than his bank account what exactly she saw in him.
The other thing is; do you think they still secretly want and would love to be single still, traveling the world and dating whomever and not having to feel obligated to tell them how great they are or where they are?  I think that most married woman stop knowing exactly who they are and what they really want, it becomes part of the married ball and chain addiction of I'm Mrs. So&So on the upper East side and I No long have my own identity or life..

I asked this question of one of my married girlfriends and I use the term "girlfriend" loosely.  She stated: "many times once you get married you don't have as much in common with your single girlfriends as you use to."  I asked well did they stop being the person(s) that you use to associate with or shop with?  She stated: "no, but our thinking (meaning married women and single women) is now different where your looking to hook the great guy, and we have already been there and done that.  It's this simply you ladies think of everything as a game of sorts and who can have the best story to tell over Martini's and lunch.  The other side of the coin is, we don't want you to know about our mates and what they are great at because secretly you'll want to see if it is true or not."  Okay, Let me just tell you I think my Gucci handbag hit the floor along with my chin.. (By the way isn't my handbag just to die for)

I couldn't believe my ears on what she was saying to me, so in all actuality she just confirmed exactly what we "Single" ladies thought, they are threaten by us and they worry that we want their guys.. News Flash Married Ladies!! Yes there are some women that are just bent on getting the married guy with the wife, kids, dog and all that so they can gain from it but, most of us single ladies don't want sloppy left overs.  I don't take them home at a restaurant and I surely don't plan on taking home your nasty, sloppy seconds!!  
Whatever the case is for your girlfriend(s), who are now married and treating you and your girls like you have some sort of plague, don't worry about it because once she sees that you all have no intention of taking or sleeping with her husband, she'll come running back to you all, because she won't see the blind side when the Nanny, her married girlfriend or Secretary is climbing in bed with him and she's now left holding a messed up hand of cards.

Smooches!!
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Cannot wait until our next get together!!